Note: I recently upgraded my website and lost all of my blog comments, hundreds and hundreds of them. I’m still sad about it! But here are the archives, sans comments. As of 2023, I am mostly writing over at Substack.

on signing a book deal and eating chips on the carpet.

when love is a relay.

sometimes someone needs to cry.

inconvenient.

you just had a baby.
is it worth it?
